Made Different: Because Blending In Was Never Part Of Your DNA
Welcome to Made Different, the podcast where we redefine success and celebrate individuality. Hosted by Rubi, this show is all about being unapologetically YOU. Being authentic as fck and figuring out how to crush it while staying true to yourself. And let me tell you what it’s NOT going to be—none of that cliché motivation or feel-good fluff. You know what I’m talking about—that ”always be in flow” bullsht or that constant hustle culture stress. Instead, you’re gonna hear real conversations with people who’ve been through shit and still made it happen. Why? Because their story, their struggles, and their own personal way is what Made them Different.
Episodes

Friday Jun 21, 2024
Friday Jun 21, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success and wealth are reserved for the chosen few. In this episode, we feature an in-depth discussion with a super special guest, Kyle, The Recovering Gamer, who shares his personal journey through gaming addiction. He explains his breakthrough moment of realizing the negative impact excessive gaming had on his relationships and responsibilities. The conversation includes practical advice for those struggling with gaming addiction and strategies for parents to help their children. Additionally, Kyle discusses the mission behind his platform, The Recovering Gamer, and highlights the importance of building a supportive community for gamers. This episode offers valuable insights for individuals seeking to balance their gaming habits and improve their overall wellbeing.
What we talk about:
Hitting Rock Bottom: A Personal Story
The Purpose of Recovering Gamer
Healthy Habits and Challenges
Advice for Parents
Advice for Gamers
The Importance of Community
Resources and Final Thoughts
Connect with Kyle:
@ug_tuner | Ug_Tuner Youtube | The Recovering Gamer | Twitch
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Tuesday Jun 18, 2024
Tuesday Jun 18, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success, wealth, and good looks are reserved for the chosen few. Today, I'm back with the iconic Hailey! Hailey and I kick off our 30-minute chats with a lively discussion on the distinction between content creators and influencers. From sharing life updates like my course relaunch to digging into the nuances of influencer culture featuring icons like Alex Earle, Fenita, and Bretman Rock, we cover a lot of ground. We touch on the concept of 'Nepo babies' with thoughts on Miley Cyrus and Taylor Swift, and how authenticity plays out in the music industry. She also opens up about her career shift from music to wellness and astrology, and we dive into the importance of community support, personality assessments, and our exciting plans for future episodes.
What You'll Hear:
00:00 Welcome Back!
00:21 Life Updates and New Beginnings
00:52 Content Creator vs Influencer Debate
04:10 Influencer Culture and Personalities
07:24 Nepo Babies and Industry Insights
09:56 Taylor Swift: The Ultimate Marketing Genius
15:35 Separating Art from the Artist
20:07 Transitioning Careers and New Ventures
23:11 Planning a European Adventure
23:51 The Power of Supportive Relationships
26:57 Understanding the Kobe Assessment
28:34 Exploring Personal and Work Styles
31:36 Astrology and Personality Tests
34:45 Target's Controversial Collaboration
37:31 Future Plans and Moving Considerations
40:04 Concluding Thoughts and Series Plans
Connect with Hailey:
@authenticallyhailey | Tiktok
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@madedifferentpodcast | @rubiskilton | TikTok | Youtube
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Monday Jun 17, 2024
Monday Jun 17, 2024
In this episode of the Made Different Podcast, I explore the true essence of self love, moving beyond the common perception of unconditional love. I break it down into five chapters: defining self love, debunking the myths, understanding genuine self love, actionable steps to kickstart your self love journey, and practical homework to implement these learnings. Tune in to discover how to love yourself in ways that truly foster growth, success, and happiness.
Time stamps:
00:00 Introduction to Self Love
00:46 Defining Self Love
01:41 Misconceptions About Self Love
03:18 True Self Love Explained
04:30 Steps to Start Your Self Love Journey
05:31 Writing a Self Love Letter
06:26 Conclusion and Next Steps
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Friday Jun 14, 2024
Friday Jun 14, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success and wealth are reserved for the chosen few. In this episode, I sit down with Kate Obert, a brand consultant and stylist, to discuss the importance of personal branding and how it intertwines with one's identity. Kate shares her journey, tips for creating a cohesive brand, and insights on merging fashion with branding. She emphasizes the value of authenticity and the role of aesthetics as an expression of identity. We also cover practical steps for beginners, the psychological aspects of color choices, and using social media to maintain a dynamic brand vibe. Whether you're a business owner or an evolving individual, this episode offers valuable strategies to elevate your personal brand.
What we talk about:
Kate's Branding Philosophy
Discovering Personal Style05:38 Navigating Style Evolution
Creating a Cohesive Brand Vibe
Real-Life Examples of Branding
Leveraging Brand Recognition
Admiring Successful Brands
Personal Branding Challenges
Should You Be Your Brand?
Personal Branding vs. Company Branding
Defining Your Brand Identity
Utilizing Tools for Brand Development
Consistency in Branding
Adapting Your Brand to Your Energy
The Role of Social Media in Branding
Aligning Your Brand with Your True Self
Creating a Dynamic Brand Identity
Leveraging Technology for Branding
Final Thoughts and Takeaways
Connect with Kate:
@Kate.obert
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Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success, wealth, and good looks are reserved for the chosen few. Today, I'm chatting with the bestie Hailey, aka Authentically Hailey aka Wellness Baddie. We dive into an unfiltered conversation about authenticity, social media presence, and mental health. We explore Hailey's journey to showing up authentically despite external pressures and the importance of balancing various aspects of life, including her spiritual practices. We discuss our views on the toxicity in the coaching industry and the complexity of cancel culture, tying it to wider societal issues. Hailey shares her experience with Goddess Yoga, highlighting its blend of sensuality and spirituality, and offers insights into her weekly routines. We wrap up with an invitation for listeners to join Hailey's future sessions. This episode is packed with real talk and valuable life lessons that you won't want to miss.
What You'll Hear:
Introduction and Catching Up
Showing Up Authentically
Health and Wellness Journey
Navigating Online Criticism
Cancel Culture and Social Media
Child Stars and Parental Responsibility
The Complexity of Cancel Culture
The Dilemma of Supporting Artists
Environmental Responsibility and Hypocrisy
The Need for a Cancel Council
Balancing Spirituality and Human Desires
The Importance of Self-Care
Goddess Yoga and Divine Feminine Energy
Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts
Connect with Hailey:
@authenticallyhailey | Tiktok
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Monday Jun 10, 2024
Monday Jun 10, 2024
In this episode of the Made Different Podcast, I share my personal journey of dealing with exhaustion and feeling lost, especially after a high-energy month in April. I delve into how constant comparison to others can drain your energy and obscure your own unique path to success. I emphasize the importance of looking within and trusting your own blueprint for success. This episode covers four main chapters: why you're feeling tired and unmotivated, what these feelings are signaling, recognizing yourself as your own guru, and actionable steps to define and achieve your version of success. Tune in for a candid discussion and practical advice to help you stop looking around and start focusing on your own journey.
Time stamps:
00:00 Welcome to the MADE DIFFERENT Podcast
00:08 Reflecting on April and May
01:29 The Struggle of Feeling Lost and Tired
02:46 Understanding the Root Cause
04:49 You Are Your Own Guru
06:48 Homework: Defining Your Success
08:43 Conclusion and Next Steps
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Thursday May 30, 2024
Thursday May 30, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success, wealth, and good looks are reserved for the chosen few. Today, I am joined by my incredible friend, Laura Kistner, an inspiring coach who shares her journey of self-discovery and transformation. At nearly 41 years old, Laura reflects on her internal struggles, from feeling unfulfilled at 38 to battling infertility and student debt. She explains how pivotal moments and the support from her husband helped her realize the importance of inner happiness. Through podcasts, coaching programs, and her self-certified life coaching business, Laura found her passion for empowering women. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-acceptance, loving oneself beyond physical appearance, and leading by example, particularly for one's children. Laura shares practical tips on taking small steps towards positive change and the importance of having a bigger 'why' in life. This heartfelt discussion offers valuable insights for anyone feeling stuck and searching for a purpose.
What we talk about:
Unveiling Laura's Journey: From Self-Doubt to Empowerment
The Power of Support: A Marriage Strengthened by Challenges
Overcoming Infertility: A Story of Hope and Transformation
The Turning Point: Finding Purpose and Embracing Self-Worth
Breaking the Cycle: The Impact of Positive Affirmations and Taking Action
You Are Enough: Embracing Imperfections and Stepping into Your Power
Embracing Body Positivity and Self-Love
The Journey to Self-Acceptance
Teaching Body Confidence to the Next Generation
Challenging Societal Norms and Celebrating Individual Beauty
The Power of Affirmations and Focusing Beyond Physical Appearance
Discovering Inner Worth and the Impact of Self-Discovery
Laura's Purpose and the Role of Life Coaching
Connecting and Empowering Through Shared Visions
Connect with Laura:
@Laurakistnercoaching
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Monday May 27, 2024
Monday May 27, 2024
In this episode of the Made Different Podcast, I dive into the power of affirmations for manifesting and self-reinvention. I've broken it down into six easy-to-follow chapters: what affirmations are, myths about them, how to use them properly, how to create your own, examples, and tips for getting started. You'll learn about common mistakes, why just saying big goals isn't enough, and how to make affirmations that really connect with your subconscious. I've included practical tips and examples to help you start using affirmations right away. Plus, there's a homework assignment to help you swap out negative affirmations for positive ones. Enjoy!
Timestamps:
00:00 Intro
00:10 The Power of Affirmations: An Introduction
01:41 Breaking Down Affirmations: What They Are and How They Work
04:55 Debunking Myths and Misconceptions About Affirmations
07:23 Practical Guide: How to Effectively Use Affirmations
09:08 Creating Your Own Affirmations: Tips and Tricks
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Monday May 13, 2024
Monday May 13, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success, wealth, and good looks are reserved for the chosen few.Today we are diving into self love, in particular 10 micro habits that you can start implementing into your life to increase that love for yourself and radiate more confidence in any room you walk into. Enjoy!
10 Microhabits:
Get ready every morning
Give yourself pep talks
Accessories!
Romanticize your life (bake, music)
Buy yourself flowers
Identify and Respect your own boundaries
Educate yourself, grow your knowledge
Find hobbies that light you up
GRATITUDE! Be grateful for what you have
Practice talking with people everywhere you go (baristas, waiters, person sitting next to you)
Timestamps:
0:00 Intro
1:27 What are microhabits
3:00 Why microhabits and selflove go hand in hand
4:30 The 10 microhabits
16:30 How to implement them
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Thursday May 09, 2024
Thursday May 09, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success, wealth, and good looks are reserved for the chosen few. Today, I am joined by my amazing friend, Kassidy Owen, founder of Kassidy Lynne Socials. In this episode we chat all things self care, entrepreneurship, tuning into yourself, and so much more. Kassidy share's with us what it means to be successful and how to create a whole and fulfilling life.
What we talk about:
Get to know Kassidy and what led her to her current business and reality
What makes Kassidy different from the rest
Why she fell in love with running and what it took for her to complete a marathon
The importance of keeping promises to yourself and having grit
How her brothers death helped solidify the inner integrity and grit
Shifts you can implement to have grace with yourself while still keeping yourself accountable
Why you should start making yourself your own guru and put the blinders on
Getting clear on who you’re keeping in your corner
What will actually create a successful life
Mentioned In This Episode:
Self Obsessed Podcast
The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast
Connect with Kassidy:
@kassidy.owen | @kassidylynnesocials
The In-Between Podcast: Listen Now
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