Made Different: Because Blending In Was Never Part Of Your DNA
Welcome to Made Different, the podcast where we redefine success and celebrate individuality. Hosted by Rubi, this show is all about being unapologetically YOU. Being authentic as fck and figuring out how to crush it while staying true to yourself. And let me tell you what it’s NOT going to be—none of that cliché motivation or feel-good fluff. You know what I’m talking about—that ”always be in flow” bullsht or that constant hustle culture stress. Instead, you’re gonna hear real conversations with people who’ve been through shit and still made it happen. Why? Because their story, their struggles, and their own personal way is what Made them Different.
Episodes

Monday Mar 24, 2025
Monday Mar 24, 2025
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In this episode of the Made Different podcast, we dive deep into how your social circle influences your life. Reflecting on last week’s chat with Jess about manifestation, we explore the importance of surrounding yourself with people who uplift and challenge you. The host shares personal stories of feeling stuck and highlights the scientific fact that you become the average of the five people you spend the most time with. We also look forward to Friday's upcoming episode with singer-songwriter Zelly Vibes, who knows all about protecting your energy. Grab a piece of paper and jot down who you spend the most time with, and think about how they affect you. Ready to level up your vibe? Tune in and find out how!
What You'll Hear:
The Impact of Your Social Circle
Personal Experience with Feeling Stuck
The Importance of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People
Scientific Basis for Social Influence
Upcoming Episode with Zelly Vibes
Action Steps for Evaluating Your Social Circle
Let's Connect!
@madedifferentpodcast | @rubiskilton | TikTok | Youtube
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Friday Feb 14, 2025
Friday Feb 14, 2025
Welcome back to the Made Different Podcast. In today's episode, I hang out with my girl Jessica Tellian. We dive deep into her incredible journey of manifestation, EFT tapping, and major life changes. Jessica shares her personal background, clearing up the funny misconception about her heritage, and talks about the bold decisions that led to significant personal growth, like turning down a huge opportunity with Nike! We also get real about the toxic sides of the spiritual community and how to spot red flags. Plus, Jessica guides us through a super energizing EFT tapping session to help us start the day right. This episode is packed with chill vibes, authentic conversations, and practical tips to help you level up in life and business. You don't want to miss it!
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What You'll Hear:
Meet Jessica
Manifestation and Personal Growth
Leaving Opportunities and Personal Decisions
Anxiety and Realizations
Moving Back to New Jersey
Embracing Authenticity
Toxicity in the Spiritual Community
Red Flags in Spiritual Leadership
Reflecting on Past Challenges
Embracing Authentic Energy
Transitioning to a New Path
The Power of EFT and NLP
Manifesting Success
EFT Tapping Demonstration
Overcoming Victim Mentality
Practical Steps for Change
Conclusion and Farewell
Connect with Jessica:
@Jessica.tellian | @themanifestationacademy | @TikTok
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Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
Wednesday Jan 08, 2025
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Ready to dive into manifestation, but without the woo-woo fluff? In this bridge episode between our chat with Rachel Harrison and next week's deep dive with Jessica Tellian, we're getting real about what manifestation actually means – and spoiler alert: it's not just about positive vibes.
What You'll Hear:
The connection between authentic self-development and true manifestation
Why "raising your vibration" isn't enough (and what to do instead)
Breaking down the difference between manifestation and magical thinking
A practical exercise in identity-based transformation
Preview of next week's conversation with Jessica Tallien about the online spiritual community
Let's Connect!
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Friday Jan 03, 2025
Friday Jan 03, 2025
Today, we've got the amazing Rachel Harrison with us. She's the USA Today bestselling author behind some seriously killer books like 'So Thirsty,' 'Black Sheep,' 'Such Sharp Teeth,' 'Cackle,' and 'The Return.' Rachel spills the tea on her writing rituals, from making playlists to planning epic book tours. We dive into her brand-new novel, 'Play Nice,' which has some wild Britney Spears and Amityville vibes. Rachel also gets real about her journey to becoming an author and dishes out some solid advice for those of you looking to make it in the writing game. We even fantasize about which of her books would make the best films and who she'd love to see direct them. Trust me, you don't want to miss this one!
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What You'll Hear:
Meet Rachel
Discussing Rachel's Books and Impact
Writing Rituals and Book Promotion
Tour Experiences and Fashion
Writing Process and Book Development
Advice for Aspiring Authors
Finding Your Writing Niche
New Book: Play Nice
Dream Adaptations and Final Thoughts
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Connect with Rachel:
@rachelharrisonsghost | @TikTok
Check Out My Favorite Book by Rachel: Here
Let's Connect!
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Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
Wednesday Jan 01, 2025
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Hey everyone, happy 2025! Welcome back to Made Different Season Two. I'm beyond excited for this year because I've had some incredible conversations with singers, songwriters, entrepreneurs, and more. This season is all about being unapologetically you and figuring out how to crush life while staying true to yourself. We’re ditching the fluffy motivation and getting real with stories of people who’ve made it happen despite the odds. In this episode, I dive into why 'New Year, New Me' resolutions are bullshit and share practical tips on setting goals that actually work. I also talk about the power of journaling and how visualizing your ideal life can change everything. Plus, I'm stoked to share my insights on making 2025 your best year yet and remind you to tune in for an inspiring chat with author Rachel Harrison this Friday. Let's smash 2025 together!
What You'll Hear:
Welcome to Season Two!
Real Talk: New Year, New Me?
The Power of Journaling
Setting Realistic Goals for 2025
Becoming Your Best Self
Wrapping Up and What's Next
Let's Connect!
@madedifferentpodcast | @rubiskilton | TikTok | Youtube
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Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Wednesday Jul 17, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast. In this Wednesday episode of Made Different, we dive into all things manifestation. We're excited to share our personal experiences and examples of how we've manifested things into our lives. We explore what manifestation means to us, the importance of setting clear intentions, and taking action to bring those intentions to life. We also highlight the misconceptions around manifestation and explain why it's not just about writing things down—it's about embodying those desires and taking aligned steps. Haley shares her journey of leaving her corporate job in the music industry and stepping into a new role she manifested, while Ruby discusses her desire to reclaim her reputation and embrace a new era. Tune in for practical tips, real-life stories, and a deeper understanding of how you can be a master manifestor too. Let us know what you're manifesting—we're nosy and we'd love to hear!
What You'll Hear:
Introduction and Greetings
Diving into Manifestation
Personal Manifestation Stories
Balancing Energies in Relationships
Current Manifestation Goals
Manifestation and Shadow Work
Practical Tips for Manifestation
Conclusion and Farewell
Connect with Hailey:
@authenticallyhailey | Tiktok
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Monday Jul 08, 2024
Monday Jul 08, 2024
Welcome back to the Made Different Podcast. Today, we're focusing on dreams and goals—why it's never too late to pursue them and how to set yourself on a path to achieve them. I'll walk you through the personal journey I've been on, including some reflections from past goals. We'll explore three compelling reasons why you should never give up on your dreams, offer a motivational pep talk, and provide actionable steps to help you take daily strides toward your goals. Whether it's through daily affirmations, vision boards, or taking consistent action, this episode is designed to give you the spark you need to revisit and reignite your passion for your dreams. Join me as we break down the practical steps to making your dreams a reality. If this episode resonates with you, please leave a rate and review to help us grow our incredible community. I can't wait to see the amazing impact you'll create by saying yes to your goals. Catch you in the next episode!
Time stamps:
01:21 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Goals
06:07 Three Reasons Not to Give Up on Your Dreams
08:19 Action Steps to Achieve Your Dreams
11:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Thursday Jul 04, 2024
Thursday Jul 04, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, where we shatter the myth that success and wealth are reserved for the chosen few. In this episode, I am chatting with Mary McElhattan, the visionary behind Permission Mission. Mary shares her journey and the importance of normalizing the conversation around mortality. From her personal experiences with loss to her professional insights as a chaplain, Mary emphasizes the need to prepare for the inevitable with empathy and openness. We discuss how families can begin these tough conversations, the benefits of pre-planning, and the emotional relief it brings. Whether it's facing a terminal illness or simply wanting to plan ahead, Mary's mission is to bring light to the certainty of death and help people find peace before it happens. Tune in for a powerful and eye-opening dialogue about life, loss, and legacy.
What we talk about:
Mary's Background and Journey
The Birth of Permission Mission
Discussing Mortality and Grief
Advice for the Grieving
Importance of Talking About Mortality
Approaching Conversations About Death
Permission Mission's Goals and Impact
Mary's TV Show and Spreading the Message
True Crime and Respectful Storytelling
Common Myths About Mortality
Conclusion and Contact Information
Connect with Mary:
@permission.mission
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Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Tuesday Jul 02, 2024
Hey what’s up welcome back to the Made Different podcast, we are back with Hailey!! Today we discuss the transition from girlhood to womanhood. We share personal experiences and thoughts about when and how this transition happens, the differences between the two stages, and the importance of taking responsibility in adulthood. The conversation touches on the vibrational energies associated with girlhood and womanhood, the importance of community, and maintaining self-expression. We also highlight the balance between embracing aspects of girlhood while stepping into womanhood. Ps... wanna join our movie club?
What You'll Hear:
Diving into Womanhood vs. Girlhood
Personal Reflections on Transitioning to Womanhood
The Importance of Responsibility and Self-Reliance
Balancing Girlhood and Womanhood
High and Low Vibrations of Girlhood and Womanhood
Community and Support Systems
Final Thoughts and Movie Club Announcement
Connect with Hailey:
@authenticallyhailey | Tiktok
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Monday Jul 01, 2024
Monday Jul 01, 2024
In this episode of the Made Different Podcast, I'm here share how you can set up your month for success. I discuss the importance of planning and provide practical tips on how I create a detailed calendar, set specific goals, and incorporate non-negotiables into my schedule. I emphasize the importance of actionable steps and affirmations to help you achieve your desired outcomes. I also highlight the significance of not overloading your schedule and sticking to your plan for maximum effectiveness. Join me to learn how to transform your life with effective monthly planning.
Time stamps:
00:50 Setting Up Your Month for Success
03:49 Creating Specific and Achievable Goals
05:08 Integrating Goals into Your Calendar
06:44 Using Affirmations to Support Your Goals
08:24 Conclusion and Next Steps
Lets Connect:
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